listen i’m incredibly sensitive and critical about the way women are treated in media but i also think people are Waaaayy too harsh on travis mcelroy for the whole julia thing. like fridging for manpain is a real issue in media but i think that when you’ve got a dude who has openly said ‘i love my wife a ton and i lost my mother when i was younger so losing my wife is a fear of mine i wanted to explore through a fictional proxy’ i think it’s honestly just, a little cruel to make fun of him for that. i’ve seen some pretty mean stuff said.
